



When we left, we stopped for some lunch. I might not LOVE Chuck E. Cheese but, I do LOVE spending one on one time with my favorite girl in the whole wide world!!!!
Since the beginning of the month, we have been reading the book, “Together for Kawnzaa”. We are all trying to learn little by little at Zoe’s speed about the African heritage. Kwanzaa is based upon seven principals, and we’ve been going over the seven principals and all the traditions that go along with the holiday. We have all enjoyed reading the book, so much in fact that Zoe wants to buy a kinara, which is the Kwanzaa candle holder. We hope to have one for next year!
When we got to the park, the lake was frozen over. We couldn’t help ourselves and had to throw rocks on the ice to hear all the cool different noises. Some spots were not as frozen so if you hit the ice hard enough, the rock would fall through. We did this for about 30 minutes. It was way cool!
Everyone knows I’m obsessed with my camera and I don’t leave home without it, and now Zoe is now totally into taking pictures. So, for Christmas, Zoe got her own ‘digital’ camera. We couldn’t leave the park until Zoe had a chance to snap a few pics of her own with her new digital camera. She’s taken plenty shots of the dogs lying around the house so, today she excited to get some ‘action’ shots at the park.
We love not having an agenda and being able to get out and enjoy quality time together. When we left the park, we stopped for some pizza, and home for a nap. That is what I call a perfect day!



Per usual, when we got to their house, they had it all from shrimp cocktail, spinach dip, cheese, ham, turkey, stuffing, lasagna, chocolate pumpkin pie, pound cake, cookies, you name it, they had it and it was all HOMEMADE! (Note to all, seek out and befriend a first generation Italian, Good gosh do they know how to host a party!!) I thought Shelli was going to have to roll me out of there. We ate so much, and the kids had a blast playing. We had a wonderful time and are so very thankful for all of the wonderful friends we’ve made over the years.





The holidays are always hard for me. Not having family close makes it hard for everyone to get together for the holidays. In the perfect world, both sides of the family would get together for every holiday but because we are all in different states, it makes it hard. I miss everyone so much. We are grateful to have a handful of close friends here that take good care of us!






After the program the kids got to bring the parents a gift that they made in class, and I have to hand it to Zoe, she kept it quiet, no matter how much Lori tried to pry it out of her (anyone who knows Lori and her problem at Christmas can appreciate what Zoe had to endure). The gift was the most awesome display of macaroni art I could have imagined. It was a wreath made of bowtie pasta, spray painted gold. Wow was it nice, we couldn’t wait to get home and hang it on the tree.

Once all the festivities we were over and we had some refreshments, we gathered our things, wished the teachers a Happy Holiday, and headed straight for the nearest Starbucks for some hot chocolate, a latte, and Lori’s new fave, a pumpkin latte.
What a great morning and wonderful way to kick off the last few days before the BIG DAY!
**See video below**


Zoe and Jalyn
Next, we went to see The Festival of Trees, which was beautiful. There were about 30 trees all decorated differently. All equally beautiful! Over in another area of the building there were harpists playing Christmas carols. Zoe and I walked hand in hand around looking at all the different trees, talking about girl stuff, and enjoying the moment. Shelli wasn’t far behind; she stood in line for some apple cider and soft pretzels.
Later in the afternoon (after nap time), we headed over to the local family owned dairy barn where we get our milk. They were having a live nativity in their barn. When we got there, all the kids were dressed up, all the animals were out, and carols were playing. As we walked through, we could see Zoe’s wheels turning. Everything she has been learning in school was coming together. There were the animals, those 3 guys who brought stuff from SO far away, and right in the middle was Baby Jesus in the hay (the main topic in school this month). The nativity scene was set up in the upper level of the main barn of the dairy, so obviously all the cows were in for the night in their stalls downstairs, which much to Shelli’s delight, was open for the public to see. We all went down to check it out. Zoe (and Shelli) couldn’t believe her eyes when she saw all the cows lined up grazing on sweet hay. Zoe says, “Those are the cows that we get our milk from!” Zoe and Shelli spent lots of time playing with all the cows. There was even a 2 day old calf that Zoe couldn’t resist kissing.


When we got home, keeping in tradition, we made our traditional gingerbread house. Everyone who knows Shelli knows the gingerbread house is a touchy subject. She always has issues with keeping the walls up, and it’s usually a not-so-kid-friendly situation –ha! So this year when shopping for the house, we opted for the deluxe set that was basically dummy proof. We had the walls up and roof on in ten minuets. It was a miracle and we were all so very excited to sit down together and decorate it, stress free! Per usual, Zoe ate more decorations than went on the house but that is what it’s all about. If you don’t have frosting all over you and you don’t enjoy all the candy, what’s the fun of it, right?


It was a LONG, but fun day. I treasure these moments and always look forward to them. The time we spend as a family doing family things is priceless. We do miss not having all the family with us when we do all our holiday activities but we bring them along in our hearts, and our blog!
We got a train, for the Christmas tree that is! Shelli has always wanted a train for the tree and we happened to come across one on ‘Black Friday’ when we went out. It’s been in the garage because we’ve had so much going on. We finally got it up and Zoe couldn’t be more thrilled! She sits and watches it go round and round. The train even plays Christmas carols. What could be better than that? Because it was the first time setting it up, we opted for the BIG track. Zoe wanted to get the full effect of it. Next year, we will size it down to fit around the tree. That is going to be a Zoe and Shelli tradition!